Gutted

[Mothy]

Sad to hear that Littlegem..I am sure that brighter times are not far away!

[Mothy]

[valmarg]

Littlegem, I don't wish to be insensitive, but isn't there any way you could stay put, and send OH packing?

After all your hard work, it does seem so very wrong that you are the one to lose out.

That's life I guess.  Nobody said things had to be fair, but it would be nice if they could be now and again!!

Hope things get better, soon

valmarg

[delboy]

What has he said about the garden, plants etc?

Will he care for them?

Or will he tear them all up, and/or stamp on them as happened to my garden and allotment when I left brighton in 1983?

It still hurts!

Plus ca change

[kitty]

sometimes after a big ruckus its best to walk away and start again..
still hurts badly from what i've seen :'(

i hope its not being too painful at the moment ...you  can see we are all thinking of you

love from
little gem support team

[sarah]

what a sad time for you little gem, i do hope that things work out ok for you.  i guess it'll be hard going for a while but i hope that you keep checking in here for support and reassurance because we all understand how you feel about your garden and sometimes just knowing people understand can make a big difference.  when you are settled we will all send you seeds and you can start anew. ;)

[littlegem]

thanks everyone for all your kind words and support.    :-*

Its going to be hard, but i'll get through. i'll be able to come here in the day, but not at night, he wont let me have the computer even though i paid half of it! and my mda mobile phone wont allow me to go on the chat bit.

I'm taking all my pots of stuff, and will gradually build my new garden. I will be renting but having a nice garden will be worth it!

Thanks again everyone, although i have lost out on my garden i will definately not be losing out on coming here, its what has kept me sane these last few months!!!
Thank you  :-*

[busy_lizzie]

We are all behind you little gem! You will build a garden again and the sun will shine on you again! Let us know if you need seeds.  :) love busy_lizzie

[jonny211]

That sounds rubbish, my sympathies go out to you. Having left my flat and garden to the evil ex a couple of years back I can say that things can just get better, grab what you can when you can though!

[MrsKP]

Do a Thelma and Louise, hire a van with a trusted friend and clear the lot out !

(it's amazing what you can shove in a transit if there's a need to do so).

We're with you kid.  Always two sides to every story, but the "not allowed" bit drives me mad.

Are you watching Corrie atm ?  I could wring Shelley's neck !

and if you need some computer tips, just rewire a few stragic looking inner cables :P

;D

[bennettsleg]

and if you need some computer tips, just rewire a few stragic looking inner cables :P

...and my brother's an IT God.  Knows lots of viruses/other... >:)

[barrowbob]

Erm, not sure if it would work littlegem, but watering plants makes them grow, could you try propagating the computer by (very carefully) watering it copiously without its roots in the socket?  ;)

[lorna]

Littlegem. Only just catching up on posts as I have been away since Friday. I would just like to wish you happiness for the future whatever you decide to do.
When my middle daughter parted from her husband after only two years I was devastated, both Charlie and I liked the guy very much but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. She has been with her present partner for 13 years and has three lovely kids with him.
As others have said keep in touch, hopefully you will soon get yourself back in to the flow of things. Good luck
Lorna

[ellkebe]

Littlegem - hope everything works out for you.

[paddy]

Sorry to hear your news, only joined today and this is my first message!

[Bun]

Be strong. There's always next year. I wish you well.

[weedbusta]

weedkill whetever you're leaving behind... if you're not going to see them why should he

take your half of the computer and anything else you bought together.....leave wee piles of half of everything.

hide lots of fish around the house (it rots really quickly).....every time he finds one he'l hope its the last.

take the soap drawer out of the washing machine and jam a wee red sock in before puting the drawer back......he'll ruin sooooo much before he works it out

rub a raw chilli on the front of all his underpants and place them neatly back n the drawer.....he'll wonder what the hell he's picked up   8)

good luck in your new place, warn your postie you'l be getting mega seeds from  us, you know we're all behind you. xx

[kitty]

blimey!
no-body upset weedbusta fer gawds sake! ;D

[MrsKP]

roflmao .... she's given this advice before !! you can tell  ;D

i just love the washing machine trick.

it might all be very juvenile, but it makes you laugh just thinking about it.

;D

[kitty]

*kitty busily writes advice down*...just in case you understand..just in case!

after 30 years i always introduce mr kitty as my FIRST husband...keeps him on his toes i find... ;)

[Roy Bham UK]

I was going to keep out of this, sad as it is, but I just can't sit back and watch this poor bloke get hung drawn and quartered on the internet.

littlegem, why not bring in your ex and allow him to put his side of the story? Just to even it up a little.

You really shouldn’t air your dirty laundry in public.

He may be a very nice guy, for all we know.