Hi Toadspawn,
thank you for your reply
it's taken 2 golf ball size portions of cooked rice but not fancied grated cheese or dried fruit or nuts.
I think you're right - it does seem to be at the end of it's life but I don't think I can bring myself to kill it myself, am a squeamish vegetarian, ( it's taken me twenty years to be able to cope with digging the garden and seeing worms chopped in half!)
Maybe I can find a volunteer to deal with it. I'll call in a favour or two.
thanks for your help toadspawn and Ninny
much appreciated, i like to think you would have liked pidge too if you'd met her!