and the two do seem to go together.....
my dad was a frustrated hill farmer, he saved and sent back several hundred pounds during the 2nd WW, so that he could buy a farm... only to find his wife had spent it all, assuming logically, for PBI at D-Day and beyond he walked to the Rhine before getting invalided out, that he wasn't coming back to spend it! NEEDLESS TO SAY I AM THE PRODUCT OF A SECOND MARRIAGE!
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