Wardy. I have a brother of 86 who worked part time to the age of 84. As you know I am only a young thing(?) The two years before Charlie died were quite hard, he was 15and half stone and I had to pull him up from the bed and also from his chair, of course I would do it all a million times over but it was stressful and we did miss going on our holidays, although we had a chalet at Gt Yarmouth for the last couple of years he found it such a struggle to get in the car, had to have a people carrier so that the seats were high for him. Anyhow the kids now like to see me getting out and about., they say "Mum you couldn't have done anything more for Dad so now have some time to relax" John popped in earlier and said "Have you got enough money for the week?" (I have) What would I do without the four of them, so much love!!Bye for now. Lorna.