Yes, I do leave them out in the garden all the year round, for years at a time. This is very puzzling - I genuinely have never known them break into shards as described. They just get damaged, trodden on, wheeled over and punctured. Some of them lie about empty (I hang them from a tree in bundles) and some are stacked in a pile, full of water. I have 8 big bottles full of water supporting a heavy old window, currently sheltering some spinach beet - those bottles have been sitting there doing their job since early last spring, and they certainly weren't new when I decided to use them in this way.
I also use them (full) to weigh down netting and soil covering when I run out of bricks.
Maybe East Sussex milk suppliers use stronger plastic than elsewhere? These look exactly like the ones that JRP uses (though he uses clear plastic drinks bottles as well): jug shaped with handles and screw tops, milky white flexible plastic.
Difficult to explain our differing experience with these bottles.