My "ladies" stainless steel border fork was bought back in 1989 because we had a garden in Harrow on solid clay and is still going strong and is used by both OH and me. Can't tell you how many larger forks and spades we broke trying to work that soil in the previous 6 years and, now we're 30 years older and I have slipped disks and less muscle mass, the smaller size is still perfectly manageable.
As for Kleenex, surely large or over-sized will adequately describe their "men's" size?