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Title: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on May 29, 2012, 15:10:06
Poor Charlie is not eating and drinking too much water.  He keeps trying to do a poo, and his tail is dirty with poo and flies.  He was asleep in the leanto and keeps trying to sleep in the garden behind wood etc.  OH is away working, otherwise it would be straight down to the vet.  He did wake up and allowed me to wash his tail in warm water.  OH is back tonight so may be straight to the vet, but I do love that cat.  I wish he would go to sleep and die (is that awful of me) but don't want to have to make the decision that it would be kinder to have him put to sleep. Dulce is upset as his friend doesn't want to see him, he just wants to sleep.  I can't even go to the allotment as don't want to leave him, just thinking about calling a cab to go to the vet, and then Charlie seemed to be OK, apart from the poo on his tail and running away from me to hide. Depressed from Enfield.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Squash64 on May 29, 2012, 15:38:46
Poor Charlie and poor you.  Will the vet still be open when your OH gets back? It's an awful decision to have to make, one of the penalties of loving our pets.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on May 29, 2012, 16:05:35
Charlie is still sleeping peacefully, so think I need to get out for a walk, to the lovely allotment.  He is not in any pain, and have the phone number of the emergency vet. so will leave him sleeping.  So lovely to have someone to talk too, next door still at work and she loves my cat.  Speak later.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: claybasket on May 29, 2012, 16:27:49
Poor wee cat, I hate anything suffering,do hope he pulls round or he passes in his sleep it would be a blessing may be.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: shirlton on May 29, 2012, 17:39:15
I am so sorry to hear that Charlie is so poorly. Of course it would be better for you if he died in his sleep Borlotti. Nowt wrong in wishing that but I am sure that you will do what will be best for Charlie if he is suffering. It will be difficult but at least we are able to let our little friends go when they are not enjoying life anymore.
He has been a very loved cat and is lucky that he had such a caring owner.A big hug for you Borlotti    (((()))))
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Alimo on May 29, 2012, 23:08:11
It's a hard decision to make - but when the time is right its the kindest thing you'll ever do.

Thinking of you and Charlie

Alison xxx
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: katynewbie on May 30, 2012, 07:18:58
I am thinking of you and Charlie this morning, I hope you manage to make the right decision for him and let him go if the time is right

(((hugs)))
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Poppy Mole on May 30, 2012, 07:58:48
Love & hugs to you both xx
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: betula on May 30, 2012, 08:33:24
Big hugs x
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on May 30, 2012, 15:32:31
Well Charlie had a stressful day today, emergency appointment at the vets.  His bottom has been cleaned and shaved, and his lumps cut out.  He had blood tests, and the results were immediate (better than national health service), and his kidneys and liver function is not too good, but not terrible for an old cat.  Vet a bit worried about his back legs giving way (I know the feeling) as he can't poo and clean himself, so have to keep an eye on him.  He is having a lovely sleep on my new leather settee (on the throw).  Vet was very good, and said we had to keep a close eye on him, and if he gets worse will have to make the decision to have him put to sleep which she said would be kinder than to let him struggle on. But he lives to fight another day, apart from the fact I am £130 short of cash, but OH wouldn't hear of having him put to sleep, and it is my fault and I wasn't washing his bottom everyday.  The flies had given him maggots, which has put me off eating for days. Very impressed with this new vet, and the other one caused be a lot of guilt about not putting an old cat through very expensive treatment, but this one was great, and said go back if he gets worse and it would be kinder to have him put to sleep than let him suffer (which I agree with).
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: shirlton on May 30, 2012, 16:58:20
Oh Dear. Poor Charlie. I have to look at my rabbits bums everyday to make sure that the flies haven't been around. Its worse if they are too fat to clean themselves or have problems with not being able to reach to clean themsleves. It only takes one day for the flies to strike and the maggots are there
Hope that Charlie has a good night and that you have the strength to let him go when the time comes.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: small on May 30, 2012, 17:10:55
Poor Charlie, poor you, sounds like you've got a good vet there.  I'm as unsentimental as they come. but having my put down was a bummer. It was very easy and peaceful for them, though, do stay with him if it comes to the worst. I'm sure mine knew I was there.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: antipodes on May 31, 2012, 09:37:32
Borlotti, I am sending you a big hug. It's so hard having pets sometimes, as we love them so much. You never know he may just go off peacefully. He sounds like a hell of a fighter in any case!!!!
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Squash64 on May 31, 2012, 12:52:09
How is Charlie today?
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 01, 2012, 18:03:38
Charlie is fine, I don't feel too good.  Have to watch him when he does a poo, and then put him in the basin for a wash.  Tried to shut him in the kitchen today (only place without carpet) as wanted to go out, but he wasn't having that, he loves the settee.  Oh well 'let sleeping cats lie'.  He is not stupid as knows he has to go to bed in the kitchen but not in the day.  Just rang the vet and made an appointment for next Wednesday for another check up as they will get busy after the holiday, and they were very nice, and said if he was better could cancel, also have the number for the emergency vet, as these things always happen at holiday time. He has always been such a clean cat, and feel so very sorry for him as his back legs have gone and when he tries to poo he falls over.  He is trying so hard to keep clean and wash himself. When I left school I did want to be a vet but didn't pass enough exams, but OH did say he would have me put to sleep before his beloved Charlie, but after seeing him struggling today, he has changed his mind.  He is not in any pain, and is purring and sleeping and eating, but this poo is a bit of a problem, nappies for cats maybe.  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Jeannine on June 01, 2012, 18:26:00
Does he poo just after he eats, that reflex often kicks in. If so maybe you could support him a little as he does it.We had an injured goat years ago which could barely stand, and as they poo while standing we had ti support him. It wasn't as bad as you may think.

Good luck..

XX Jeannine
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 06, 2012, 16:46:11
Good news, Charlie went to the vet today, and the vet was very pleased with him.  She said to buy him old cat's food (not out of date food, but food for cats over 7 years)  from Morrisons, so have got some today and he loved it, and may be he will put on some weight (he is so thin, even though he eats).   She said we had looked after him very well for an old cat, and they all loved him.  She also said anytime he was having problems with his poo, and back legs to bring him back, and the very best thing today was his check up was free.  She said just take the cat and go, you don't have to pay.  ;D ;D  She checked his heart beat, and we had the blood tests, but she thought he was doing well, he can have fish oil on his food to help his back legs, but apart from that just carry on, until we think he is in pain and has had  enough, but he fights on.  This vet is a lot better than another practice I went to, when they charged me an arm and a leg, and I felt so guilty that I hasn't spend hundreds of pounds on treatment for a very old cat. 
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: shirlton on June 06, 2012, 17:22:50
I am so pleased that Charlie is battling on. Sounds like you have a nice vet. Lets hope that the new diet makes him a little better. I bet you feel a lot better now love
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Squash64 on June 06, 2012, 19:18:11
That's good news, you must be really pleased.  And how nice that you didn't have to pay!
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: rokerman1973 on June 06, 2012, 19:43:33
Oh poor thing, this has made me so sad as my 17 year old cat isn't well. Thyroid problems, I'm told by the vet it happens in old cats. Some days we think that we are going to loose her then she rallies for a while then down again. The though of having her put to sleep fills me with dread but if she is suffering then I will have to bite the bullet and have it done. I to in a way hope that she just goes in her sleep. I'm thinking of you. Chin up. Alan
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 06, 2012, 19:49:35
Poor Charlie, is not so poor today. Got him the old cats food from Morrisons and he likes it.  Very pleased with the vet, and now Charlie is having a lovely sleep on the settee.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: betula on June 06, 2012, 20:11:13
So pleased B.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: shirlton on June 07, 2012, 14:53:08
Bless him He does look an old man ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Hazelb on June 14, 2012, 19:41:00
Owww  I hope he is feeling a bit better, and I hope you are too!

I have a bit of an ancient mog and I know the worries we sometimes have when she is sick a few days in a row, or goes off her cat food  ::)

If he's comfortable and loving the fuss, then he's fine.

I can't stress how important it is to his bottom clean and flies away from him!

I had a chicken that had a bit of a dirty bum and I had seen a few maggots around but didn't realise it was  fly-strike or  know how serious it was.  As soon as I discovered what was happening I got her to the vets..but it was too late for her.

Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 14, 2012, 20:59:30
Charlie is fine, after going to the vets, twice, and have put the heating on for him, and he is having a lovely sleep in front of the radiator.  Funny story at the vets, my lovely neighbour from next door, has got an old cat too, and as she doesn't drive, my partner (who pretends he doesn't like cat, but brushes Charlie everynight, and didn't mind when Charlie pooed on his laptop as he has gone blind, worse at night), drives next door's cat to the vet, and waits for her and the cat and brings them both home, she will exist on giving him £10, cheaper than a cab.  The first time he went, vet said bring your husband in with you, as thought maybe the cat may have to be put to sleep, but she is OK.  Next time OH went with me and Charlie (twice).  Yesterday, next door had to take cat to vet again and OH went, the vet said 'this is not your cat', where is Charlie.  How many wife's have you got, he said I am only a mini cab service, but we live next door.  Hopefully they can look up the address on our records, as we do live next door, but he is a man and does get a bit embarrassed about these things.   ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: shirlton on June 15, 2012, 07:49:45
 ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Hazelb on June 15, 2012, 09:04:00
How old is Charlie?

I only ask as I have a black cat called Charlie ( short for Charlotte ) and she's 23!

She's totally deaf, and a bit creaky...and we know she has lost a few marbles, but she's a happy cat and loves a knee to sit on.  ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Jayb on June 15, 2012, 10:38:09
Quote from: Borlotti on June 14, 2012, 20:59:30
Charlie is fine, after going to the vets, twice, and have put the heating on for him, and he is having a lovely sleep in front of the radiator.  Funny story at the vets, my lovely neighbour from next door, has got an old cat too, and as she doesn't drive, my partner (who pretends he doesn't like cat, but brushes Charlie everynight, and didn't mind when Charlie pooed on his laptop as he has gone blind, worse at night), drives next door's cat to the vet, and waits for her and the cat and brings them both home, she will exist on giving him £10, cheaper than a cab.  The first time he went, vet said bring your husband in with you, as thought maybe the cat may have to be put to sleep, but she is OK.  Next time OH went with me and Charlie (twice).  Yesterday, next door had to take cat to vet again and OH went, the vet said 'this is not your cat', where is Charlie.  How many wife's have you got, he said I am only a mini cab service, but we live next door.  Hopefully they can look up the address on our records, as we do live next door, but he is a man and does get a bit embarrassed about these things.   ;D ;D ;D

;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: antipodes on June 15, 2012, 16:10:39
Quote from: Hazelb on June 15, 2012, 09:04:00
How old is Charlie?

I only ask as I have a black cat called Charlie ( short for Charlotte ) and she's 23!

She's totally deaf, and a bit creaky...and we know she has lost a few marbles, but she's a happy cat and loves a knee to sit on.  ;D

23! Wow that is really ancient!

Poor old Charlie, he is starting to get that sort of "ruffled look" that old cats and dogs get (and unfortunately most of us get that way too! and there won't be a kind owner to brush our fur probably!). Still, he looks happy enough. They don't grumble like we do, do they? They just get on with it. If he is still getting food, warmth and attention, I'd say he feels like the king of the world!
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 15, 2012, 21:21:40
Charlie is 21.  He really enjoyed the chicken from Morrisons (sell by date today, so got some chicken breast less than half price), do love a good bargain and so does Charlie. He has gone to bed on his blanket, he didn't want to watch the football as he can't see at night, and we have the heating on for him.  Bless.  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: betula on June 15, 2012, 21:32:21
Good old Charlie ;D
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on June 21, 2012, 17:35:39
OH moaning well, as it is raining and he can't finish next doors garden, but he and Charlie can moan together and I can go and pick some peas. ;) ;)
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: Borlotti on July 10, 2012, 18:28:19
Update on Charlie, he has only pooed on the carpet twice, and both times my fault, as was in the kitchen, on the phone and cooking, like one does and had shut the door (thought he was asleep on the settee).  So luckily cleared it up, from my lovely new carpet before OH saw it.  He has put on weight, from the senior cat food, and even went outside briefly.  He goes to bed in the kitchen when it gets dark, without me telling him as he has gone a bit blind.  He is a long haired cat, and we are brushing him, but has some nasty lumps that we cannot get cut out with scissors without hurting him, so think we may take him to the vet, as she loved him, and didn't charge too much.  Think she would be pleased to see him walking better. Not sure how long we can keep him, luckily I am at home all day and on cat poo alert.  Sometimes he can't find the litter tray.  We cannot let him have the run of the house, so if I go out to the shops he has to be shut in the kitchen but he has a blanket down, so far not a problem.
Title: Re: Poor Charlie
Post by: bridgehouse on July 10, 2012, 23:50:47


''Oh'' Charlotte is even older than my Gracie, who is twenty one and a half, and like the other Charlie she has some knotted fur that I cannot get out, tried cutting it with scissors but she won't keep still, and I to am afraid of nicking her
She  is a semi long haired Birman. bit wobbly on her back legs she is a lovely old cat. we must be doing something right because of our cat's great age,
  June.