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Title: Me Mom
Post by: shirlton on July 10, 2009, 20:49:54
Just had aphone call to say the me Moms in Hospital again. She has very bad cellulitis in her legs. She was poorly this morning and the careworker called the doc in. When he saw the state of her legs he was not amused, He sent her straight to the hospital for intraveinous antibiotics. I spoke to the distict nurse earlier in the week about her poor legs and asked her to get a specialist appt. Just hope that she gets the  treatment she needs now.
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Post by: honeybee on July 10, 2009, 21:19:08
Its so worrying when our parents are suffering, hope all works out ok for her and that she recovers quickly x
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Post by: manicscousers on July 10, 2009, 21:31:22
sorry to hear your mom's not too good, Shirl..I don't know, we're a constant worry to them when we're small and they are a constant worry to us as they get older ..hope she gets treated a.s.a.p..Ray's mum has ulcers on her legs, this is 18 months and still getting treated twice a week  :(
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Post by: grannyjanny on July 10, 2009, 22:07:16
Sorry to here your mom is poorly. They should sort it out in hospital for her, but it is a worry. Hope she is better soon.
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Post by: elvis2003 on July 10, 2009, 22:16:49
hope she gets better soon
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Post by: nilly71 on July 10, 2009, 22:26:44
Hope mum gets better soon.
She has a great carer, i deal with elderly and vunrable all the time at work and some of the carers don't get involved with calling doctors as they don't have time (not knocking carers as i think they do a great job). Some even call us to call ambulances :o

Neil
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Post by: Squash64 on July 11, 2009, 05:46:29
Sorry to hear about your Mum Shirl, I hope she gets better soon.
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Post by: lorna on July 11, 2009, 08:18:29
Sorry to hear about your Mum Shirl. Hope you can soon give us better news. I remember the photos of her when she spent happy hours with you and Tony on the allotment. Wish her well.
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Post by: caroline7758 on July 11, 2009, 09:19:45
Sorry to hear about your mum, hope she's soon home and better.
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Post by: ceres on July 11, 2009, 10:18:40
Sorry to hear she's poorly shirl.  Hopefully they'll get it sorted for her quickly.
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Post by: cornykev on July 11, 2009, 10:20:37
Sorry to here about your Mum Shirl, all the best and hope she gets better soon.     :-*       ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Me Mom
Post by: shirlton on July 11, 2009, 17:28:28
Went to see her this afternoon and she looked quite poorly and was very disorientated. Her blood sugar was way up so she was put on a drip. her legs had been left unbandaged and when I looked I couldn't believe how bad they were.Lets hope that this time they get things sorted.
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Post by: tonybloke on July 12, 2009, 08:51:57
healing vibes from this direction, shirl!! ;)
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Post by: Emagggie on July 12, 2009, 09:03:08
At least she's in the best place for treatment now Shirl. I'll get those Essex special healing vibes to work immediately. ;)
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Post by: shirlton on July 12, 2009, 09:08:12
Thanks for the vibes folks
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Post by: Digeroo on July 12, 2009, 09:28:16
QuoteShe has very bad cellulitis in her legs

Had this last November - no joke.  Very painful indeed.  You have to spend the time with your legs above your heart - not very comfortable.  Then when you put them down onto the floor to go to the loo it's total agony.  She has my every sympathy. 

Hated it in hospital they treated me as if I'd lost my brain.  Do not eat wheat and they only managed one wheat free meal a day.  Then they moved me to a different ward but did not move the special bed so I had to prop up my leg on pillows, but they then said that I had too many pillows and would not give me any extra to support my head and shoulders.

Had it again in Feb but that time got the antibiotics much quicker.  Now have a set on the shelf just in case. 
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Post by: Hyacinth on July 12, 2009, 14:42:21
She's really going through it Shirl...massive vibes from me too, and if she remembers....love from the posh one ;D ;D ;D

All the v.v.v.best to you too; it's hard being the sole supporter, innit? Glad you got Ower Tone, gal 8)
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Post by: banshee on July 12, 2009, 22:18:01
Healing thoughts and positive energy being sent from this end too. I hope your mum is soon on the mend.

(((hugs))) and positive vibes to you too whilst you are supporting her.
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Post by: Uncle Joshua on July 12, 2009, 22:21:56
Hope your mum gets better soon.
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Post by: betula on July 12, 2009, 22:29:02
Sending get well soon wishes :)
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Post by: flowerofshona2007 on July 12, 2009, 22:42:12
I can empathise with your mum i have had cellulitus a few times and it does make you feel very ill :( older people in hospital do get disorientated very quickly but that should get better as the infection is treated.
Sending her some strong vibes to get her up and about soon and a hug for you as its a worrying time (((((((((hugs))))))))))))

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>>>>>>>>>>>>> healing vibes xxx
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Post by: littlebabybird on July 14, 2009, 19:32:37
hi shirlton
just caught up with this, how is your Mom doing?
sorry shes been poorly
lbb
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Post by: lushy86 on July 14, 2009, 20:28:28
Good vibes from me too,

Lushy x
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Post by: thifasmom on July 16, 2009, 00:35:41
i've really fallen behind on all the threads and i'm finally catching up. so just saw this. i do hope your mum is feeling a little better with the treatment she is recieving, sending her healing thoughts.
Title: Re: Me Mom
Post by: shirlton on July 16, 2009, 08:21:51
The hospital called Moms care home on Tuesday and asked them to come and assess her for going back to the home on Friday. They couldn't get hold of me so they phoned our Sal (daughter) who's a nurse. They said that they were concerned that the hospital were discharging her too early as they had before and were worried that she would go straight downhill again.Our Sal phoned the hospital and told them that they should contact her before sending Mom home and that she wanted a detailed care plan for treatment of her diabetes and infected legs..We are going to leave it to her because being a nurse she knows more than we do.................................Went to see Mom last night and she had an oxygen mask on. Still on a drip and just as confused and her legs were still weeping through the bandages.
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Post by: manicscousers on July 16, 2009, 09:16:03
such a shame, shirley  :-\
glad your daughter has got involved, Sam does the same for us, thank goodness  :)
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Post by: Hector on July 16, 2009, 09:46:19
Quote from: shirlton on July 16, 2009, 08:21:51
The hospital called Moms care home on Tuesday and asked them to come and assess her for going back to the home on Friday. They couldn't get hold of me so they phoned our Sal (daughter) who's a nurse. They said that they were concerned that the hospital were discharging her too early as they had before and were worried that she would go straight downhill again.Our Sal phoned the hospital and told them that they should contact her before sending Mom home and that she wanted a detailed care plan for treatment of her diabetes and infected legs..We are going to leave it to her because being a nurse she knows more than we do.................................Went to see Mom last night and she had an oxygen mask on. Still on a drip and just as confused and her legs were still weeping through the bandages.

Shirl so sorry to hear your Mum's still poorly but glad your daughters involved. She will know this, I'm sure, but the hospital should have a discharge meeting with family invited and the home and agree a discharge plan with care plan included BEFORE discharge. Dig your heels in if they dont agree.
Title: Re: Me Mom
Post by: shirlton on July 24, 2009, 18:55:58
Well our Moms out of hospital now and after a bit of persuasion from our Sally everything has been put in place for her ongoing care. I really can't say enough about the girls that care for her. They are really amazing. They are willing to go the extra mile for their residents.I worked in care meself so I know what its all about. They were so glad to see our Mom back with them
They said that it was like welcoming a part of their family back home. We really couldn't wish for anything better. Thankyou for all your good wishes and believe me they do make a difference.
Title: Re: Me Mom
Post by: betula on July 24, 2009, 18:59:23
Hope your mum will be OK shirl,a lot of worry for you.
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Post by: ceres on July 24, 2009, 19:05:06
That's good to hear shirl.  Hopefully, she's on the up and up now
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Post by: tonybloke on July 24, 2009, 20:43:13
nice to hear things are going better for your mum, mate  ;)
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Post by: manicscousers on July 24, 2009, 20:46:48
that's really good news, shirley  ;D
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Post by: Sinbad7 on July 24, 2009, 20:57:10
Great news Shirl. 
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Post by: lorna on July 24, 2009, 22:46:11
Great news Shirl hope Mum continues to improve.
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Post by: Squash64 on July 25, 2009, 05:26:47
Glad all is going well for your Mum Shirl, the girls who care for her sound fantastic.
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Post by: 1066 on July 25, 2009, 06:02:09
that's good news Shirl. All the best to her
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Post by: shirlton on July 25, 2009, 08:31:28
Thanks mates
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Post by: Ishard on July 25, 2009, 09:39:19
If, God forbid, you need this is the future Shirl. I hope this helps.

http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/factsheet/453
Title: Re: Me Mom
Post by: shirlton on July 25, 2009, 19:02:57
Thankyou Ishard. I have added the page to my favourites just in case.
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Post by: cornykev on July 29, 2009, 14:37:05
Great news Shirl, here's looking forward.    :-*      ;D ;D ;D