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General => The Shed => Topic started by: Ceri on May 04, 2004, 12:52:04

Title: I've given it up
Post by: Ceri on May 04, 2004, 12:52:04
No, not plotting, but smoking.  After 23 years, with only two pregnancy breaks I have finally made the sensible decision and at 7.00pm on Sunday my hubby and I went from 40 a day each to none at all.
I know this has nothing to do with plotting, but the more people I tell, the more embarassing it would be to fail!!
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Muddy_Boots on May 04, 2004, 13:01:29
Very best of luck Ceri.  Is great that you are both doing it and can support each other.  First three/four weeks are the worst then after that it gradually gets easier.

Will keep my fingers crossed for you  :D
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Mrs Ava on May 04, 2004, 13:37:38
Wow Ceri, 40 a day each  :o  With all that cash you will be saving you will be going on a luxury cruise this time next year  ;D

Good luck, Ava and I both quit, but not at the same time  :-\ however, we both agree, we feel a zillion times better for it so we both wish you both heaps and heaps of luck and are sending you gallons of cyber will power!

cccccccccyyyyyyyybbbbbbbbbbbbeeeeeeeeeerrrrrr ;D
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: busy_lizzie on May 04, 2004, 14:23:33
Good on ya, Ceri! and well done.  I don't smoke, but my Husband does and I would love him to give up.  You will benefit in so many ways but mainly in your health, which is the most important thing. You can do it - one day at a time is the best method I believe.  ;D
love and best wishes, busy_lizzie
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: legless on May 04, 2004, 15:27:14
nice one ceri! good luck to you both!!
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Mimi on May 04, 2004, 15:50:01
Good luck Ceri, you can do it.  I gave up 20 years ago but other half is still a smoker Phewwwww.  You will feel so much better eventually.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: tim on May 04, 2004, 15:57:50
Well done.

Once you've done that, there is NO reason to start again. You now KNOW you have the stregth of mind. Wonderful that you have each other's support.
And you'll no longer smell like BBQs. Keep busy and look forward to your pensions.

You may have to compensate -  gave up when I was 58 - so that's free for 25 years. Now drink 50% more, but don't have to redecorate so often!! And  haven't dropped another cigarette on my lap whilst driving!!
Good luck = Tim
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Gardengirl on May 04, 2004, 16:15:52
Hi Ceri - great that you and hub have made the decision together.  I wish you both the very best of luck - I am sure you can do it.  I don't smoke, but my husband does and I wish he would give up.  Keep posting on progress so we can all give you the moral support that you will need. :)
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Mrs Ava on May 04, 2004, 16:23:21
oooooooooo Tim, I did that when I was learning to drive.  Had a rather....friendly...relaxed driving instructor who felt learning to drive and smoke at the same time were very important, however, I hit the indicator with the end of the ciggy, burnt my leg, and a nice big hole in his seat  :-[.  Never felt comfortable smoking whilst driving after that.

YAY TO CERI!!!!!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Wicker on May 04, 2004, 18:48:54
Well done, Ceri, it has to be the right decision and you can help each other through it!

Just realised that I put a Gaelic message on Mimi's birthday thread which probably should be a toast to you and your other half - so at the risk of repeating myself .......

Slàinte, sonas agus beartas means Health, Wealth and Happiness!!

Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: budgiebreeder on May 04, 2004, 19:04:08
Just like to add my support.I gave up Sept 1st 2002 and felt the benefit within a couple of months as i'm sure that you will.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Multiveg on May 04, 2004, 19:39:23
With all the savings, think how much you could spend on the plot - more seeds, tools, etc...............
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Ceri on May 05, 2004, 07:40:01
thank you all for your kind support - it really does help.  Each day I work out what I've saved and what I can buy for the plot with it!  It's day 3 today, which I'm reliably informed is often the worst day - but after that it gets better - thank goodness.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Moggle on May 05, 2004, 09:21:54
Well done Ceri, and good luck keeping it up  :)
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: tim on May 05, 2004, 10:16:39
A selfless thought - it will probably be other folk who will benefit more than you?? = Tim
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: rosebud on May 05, 2004, 10:18:45
CERI MY HUSBAND GAVE UP 9YRS AGO AND HE FEELS GREAT. ;D
ALL POWER TO YOUR ELBOW YOU CAN DO IT, TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. HE SAID BE STRONG ON DAYS3 4 5 6 THEY ARE TRUELY TRYING
 
   
GOOD LUCKTO YOU BOTH

KEEP US POSTED WE CAN ALL GIVE YOU LOTS OF SUPPORT :D.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Ceri on May 06, 2004, 13:51:40
thanks again everyone - day 3 was survived but it was a rough old day for hubby and myself.  My husband admitted last night that he was really close to going to a little newsagents near where he was working and ask if he could buy a 'single' like we did when we were kids!  It was only the potential humiliation that stopped him I think!!
Actually beginning to feel physically better, which is a great psychological help, if you know what I mean! I will never start again just because the pain of quitting is too much!
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: rosebud on May 06, 2004, 14:24:05
   KEEP GOING CERI  WE ARE ALL BEHIND YOU  :o JUST DON`T TRIP OVER US ;D  GOOD ON YER GIRL. :) ;) :D ;D
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: tina on May 06, 2004, 21:26:04
 :D :D
Well Done!!!!

My husband and I gave up seven years ago, and we know how hard it is!!!

(Actually, the chewing gum habit that he developed was nearly as annoying as the cigs!)

It does get easier, just hang on in there!

Tina
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: eileen on May 06, 2004, 21:36:17
Good for you Ceri and OH (other half) keep it up or you'll have us to answer to!!

Seriously - well done - each day is one further away from the dreaded weed.

Eileen.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Ceri on June 08, 2004, 12:02:01
Quick update - last one as I'm trying to give up being smug now!  Quit smoking after 23 yrs 5 weeks ago.  since then the following changes have happened.

1. I now cycle the 3/4 mile to the lottie across the fields (public footpath) where before I'd drive 2 miles round by car
2. I can dig/weed etc. for hours at a time where 10-15 minute slots were all I could manage before.
3. My dog has lost the 4 kg weight she needed to as we walk so much further.
4. My muscles hurt - before they never could because I would run out of oxygen before I ever worked hard enough for long enough to push my muscles
5. I smell nice (before the digging anyway)
6. My clothes smell nice
7. I can do anything that requires puffing and panting for much longer than I could before (yes, that included)
8. I have added over half an octave to my voice range.
I'm going away now to try and give up being smug and supercilious about it in public.  Do I still want a f*g - ooooooh yes - will I ever smoke again - yes, I'm going to start again when I'm 92 (a girl has to have something to look forward to!)
8. I have put on weight - a whole 1.5 lbs
9. Food tastes of actual food.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: eileen on June 08, 2004, 13:28:34
What can I say Ceri - YOU'RE A STAR!!!!!

Wonderful news!! I was beginning to think you'd started again as we hadn't had an update.

Keep it up and before you know it it'll be 5 MONTHS, then 5 YEARS!!!!!  We are all sooooo proud of you.

Love and best wishes, Eileen.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Les_Woof on June 08, 2004, 14:53:12
Good luck

Never give up giving up!!!!

Les
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Mrs Ava on June 08, 2004, 17:49:10
Yay Ceri!   ;D Excellento!!    ;D ;D It was the smell that amazed me, and still does to this day.  And my teeth.  I used to get little fur coats on every tooth and by the end of the day my mouth was fur lined.  Now my teeth feel smooth and clean and shiney all day through!  Good for you ceri!!  So, how much cash have you saved, I mean, not only quitting the fags, but the petrol now you are cycling?!?!?!  
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Wicker on June 08, 2004, 23:05:46
Ceri, you sound so happy that I almsot feel like starting smoking so I could give it up!! ;D Good on you.
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: legless on June 09, 2004, 06:21:47
nice one ceri!
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: busy_lizzie on June 10, 2004, 12:25:42
Ceri, Just wanted to pass on my praise and admiration to you for still keeping off the cigarettes.  It is not easy but I am glad that already you are seeing the benefits.  Well done!  :D We are all behind you! love,   :) busy_lizzie
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Yellow Petals on June 11, 2004, 10:14:10
Well done, Ceri! (http://www.uselessgraphics.com/cheerleader1.gif)
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: Toots on June 11, 2004, 13:02:36
Keep going Ceri,it's worth it ,for the rest of your life.You'll be so glad you gave up once the initial stress is over! ;D
Title: Re:I've given it up
Post by: jo2 on June 16, 2004, 08:20:35
Make sure you spend the money saved on something YOU want, don't let it vanish into household stuff. You are doing a big thing and deserve a real big reward!
Ps I am most envious, I keep trying and don't get past a few hours!