this is soo funny, When im taken for granted with my 4 kids, lazy git of a hubby, dog,cat, rabbits, chickens etc, I just take a bottle or two of dry white wine and 20 fags up to my greenhouse and potter about with my plants, i get those massive candles to keep it light, nice and warm, quiet and i can watch the sun go down hear the birds sing their last tunes of the day, Blissfully quiet, my sanctuary, and think to myself "sod the lot of em" !!