I had a lovely cabbage, still got half in the fridge, from my allotment neighbour, but was told to 'help myself' as he was away for two weeks, only took one cabbage, I promise, and told him when he got back. His cabbages are beautiful and only came from the pound shop, seeds for £1. But I have given him figs, strawberries and cooking apples, so it is OK to ask, but still don't like taking when the plot holder is not around. It is amazing that plot holders know who many apples, plants etc. they have and if one is missing they notice. Did take some raspberries off the neglected site that hasn't been taken, so that doesn't counts. Ask and you will receive, have been offered too many marrows, no more please. Lovely people on our allotment site, and the cooking apples I left for anyone are still there, must put a notice on 'my take' surplus to requiremnts.