Brilliant idea, chriscross, but how many people have a convenient Sikh temple nearby?
I join in because I have been to 2 Sikh weddings in Singapore, and the family (including me) had to spend 2 or 3 hours in the temple kitchens chopping onions (quite mouldy, sack after sack), very long beans, garlic and so forth, as part of their tradition that no-one is too rich or grand that they don't spend time on humble tasks for the benefit of their fellow men and women. Poor or not.
One day I crossed the Straits of Singapore into Malaysia for a day, went to the nearest Sikh temple, and EXACTLY the same ideals were carried out. Except I was not family there, so they fed me.