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I was an abandoned baby during WWII, reason unknown - subsequently adopted. I have never felt the slightest desire to contact my so-called 'birth' family - they are nothing to me and I am nothing to them. Also, I do not understand why anybody wishes to dredge up the past - life is about the future! I have lots of loving family now and do not need to go rooting around in others' lives, possibly causing intense distress.
40 Years ago a baby was adopted by a loving couple. Sadly both of them died before he was 20.He has no family other than the children by his marriage and feels it would be wonderful to have siblings, aunts and uncles who are his natural relatives as friends. His children know, his wife does too. The question is.....Should he contact them or not?