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shirlton

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Bye to my friends
« on: June 06, 2009, 09:57:32 »
I have enjoyed being a part of this forum for the last 3 years and have made many good friends. Today I have been accused of being racist and I really did not intend any offence to anyone and must apologise if I have.
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ceres

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #1 on: June 06, 2009, 09:59:21 »
Shirl, that is ridiculous.  You stay right where you are.  The reactions on that thread are bonkers.  Ignore it and carry on being one of the valued posters here.

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #2 on: June 06, 2009, 10:02:46 »
Here, here!

There are lots of threads I simply don't contribute to for that reason.

You stay and keep posting!

lorna

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #3 on: June 06, 2009, 10:04:32 »
?? I hope you are joking when you say "Bye to my friends". As Ceres has said .. stay where you are. I have always enjoyed your posts and your sense of humour.

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #4 on: June 06, 2009, 10:10:50 »
Don't go Shirl.

You were not racist.I do not believe anyone was.Some people delight in reporting stuff to the moderator as they are so PC they see fault in everything.

Stay and fight your corner and do not let these people have the satisfaction of thinking they have driven you out, :)

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #5 on: June 06, 2009, 10:12:16 »
Some idiots are far too quick to use the term "racist". Ignore them, stay here... as for those who go running to Dan when they manage to find something that they can misinterpret - he's a busy guy with better things to do... grow up.

It's a pity that 2 people in particular chose to get all aggressive when others were simply stating their views. Shame on those 2 for escalating it to this - learn how to play nicely or play somewhere else!


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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2009, 10:14:57 »
Dont go anywhere shirlton.  I havent seen the post but in my experience these sort of things happen on  internet forums all the time - It's difficult to express humour/sarcasm/irony and posts can be taken in ways not meant by the poster ...then people over react and it normally ends up with someone invoking the nazis! Then it all dies down and we start again.  Post on shirlton!
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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2009, 10:17:39 »
Did you mention Nazi's, Nick? How dare you insult the memories of so many who have fallen, on this day of all days.... concentration camps, my grandfather... blardy blar... etc etc etc....  :) :)

I'm going to complain to the moderator right away.  ::)

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #8 on: June 06, 2009, 10:21:44 »
How dare you mention concentration when I have ADD. Admit it, you're having a go at me aren't you!

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #9 on: June 06, 2009, 10:22:59 »
please don't stop posting. I enjoy your posts and your sense of humour.... all the ladies would miss ower pin up boy Ower Tone  LB

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #10 on: June 06, 2009, 10:24:54 »
shirl,thank you for apologising,i was offended by your comment,and a few others ,but i accept you didnt mean any harm by it,lets just all move on now hey
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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #11 on: June 06, 2009, 10:26:28 »
Come on Shirl, buck up.  Im sure youre not a little wildflower that wilts so easily.  ;D

Put it this way Shirl; in a room full of 100 people 5 wont like you, but you dont leave. You ignore those 5 and carry on having fun.

Not everyone will like everyone, its a fact of life so unfurl your petals and get back to enjoying this forum  ;D

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #12 on: June 06, 2009, 10:32:48 »
what lovely sentiments Ishard  :) wish I could have expressed my thoughts in such a nice ways...take heart Shirl think of yourself as a beautiful rose that we can enjoy

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #13 on: June 06, 2009, 10:41:28 »
I don't post often, don't have much to say! But don't go because I love reading your posts, garden centre exploits, ower tone, I could go on and on.

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #14 on: June 06, 2009, 11:28:59 »
I second Elvis' sentiments.  Please stay

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #15 on: June 06, 2009, 12:01:29 »
no way can you leave girlie we love you and that is not just cos of tone the pin up please stay if you dont we will come en masse and drag you back to the forum  ;D

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #16 on: June 06, 2009, 12:42:31 »
Pleeeease stay, Shirl!

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #17 on: June 06, 2009, 13:13:45 »
Don't you Dare leave. >:(

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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #18 on: June 06, 2009, 13:21:22 »
I you go then that person as won.So please stay.
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Re: Bye to my friends
« Reply #19 on: June 06, 2009, 13:38:01 »
i think you should stay too, you are a long time forum member and have good things to say and have many friends. you give sensible advice about growing veg, which is what most people come here for. 

 

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