Topic: We're so proud of him

[asbean]

This time last year one of my stepsons died suddenly in Belfast of a massive brain haemorrhage.  He was just 50, and it was a terrible shock for all of us.

He was fantastic person, always wanting to do what he could to help other people, especially if the problem involved anything electronic. A real techie,  not a nerd - he was interested in anything and everything.  He and his father were two of a kind, and we miss them both so much.

A few years ago he got involved in a project with the local school (the headmaster and he were friends) and I remember him talking about what he was doing, and there was a bit in the local paper at the time.  After his funeral the school said they wanted to plant a tree to commemorate him and his work, it got a bit delayed but the ceremony was last week -

http://www.hampshirechronicle.co.uk/display.var.1755528.0.school_plants_tree_in_benefactors_memory.php

(BTW His sons and wife are doing the planting, I'm the one in the mustard jumper)

[OllieC]

And you're right to be proud of him, asbean. It's so easy to get tied up in our day to day stuff - people who manage to make the time to "give something back" are an inspiration to us all.

[star]

I echo everything Ollie said, asbean. My son died 10 years ago and he didnt have a green funeral, I knew nothing of them then.

But I have planted a lovely Rowan tree at the farm were Im part of a co operative. It will always be there in memory of him. Just as the beautiful oak is for your stepson.

Love and hugs to you all on his 1st anniversary

[manicscousers]

what a lovely man he was, giving his time and encouragement, I'm glad they've recognised his efforts.. :)

[lorna]

asbean as others have said what a great man. Sad that he died at such a young age but he will surely be remembered for all the time and thoughts he had for the school.  All his family must be so proud.
Lorna

[Lauren S]

Your story has warmed my heart. You must be bursting with pride.

Cyber hugs
Lauren

[caroline7758]

A lovely tribute, asbean. The school was very lucky to have someone like him- maybe his story will inspire others.xx

[cornykev]

You must be proud of such a great guy Asbean, why do all the good uns get taken away so early.

[glosterwomble]

What a fantastic person to have done that for the school. You are justified in being proud!

[mc55]

how lovely.  We planted a tree in memory of my boss who died unexpectedly after 'winning' his fight with cancer.  He loved the outdoors and walking so we planted a 'mountain ash' - which I think is also the same as Rowan.  I think of him everytime I go by it and send him a smile  :)