I agree, almost impossible to kill bubby! I have known people plant it upside down, (you know who you are ;)) and still it thrives! Mine has flourished even after frosty mornings and snow! Curious. I think Melbourne could well have the answer - you have created warm dark growing conditions, the plant grows very very soft and weak, then you remove the bucket and the plant has just got shocked. Potentially new shoots will emerge and grow on and be fine.
Be careful when feeding bubby. I don't really understand all the wheres and whyfores of feeding and fertilisers, but I gave mine a lovely thick top dressing autumn/winter 2004 and my harvest for 2005, altho great, tended to be short stems and HUGE leaves when you really want the reverse. Winter just gone, I ignored my buuby plants, and I have been pulling stems as long as my arm and they are sweet and juicy and fab!
Slugs will chew away at the young rhubarb stems, and I have a feeling earwigs will also. I haven't known mice or other furry critters eat it as it isn't very palatable until cooked in a crumble! ;D